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LOCATIONS | STE. GENEVIEVE, MO & CRYSTAL CITY, MO
On behalf of Jacquelyn S. Gonz, Attorney at Law LLC posted in child custody on Wednesday, August 14, 2019.

Parenting is already a challenge due to the external pressures of raising a child. However, the problem only intensifies when parents decide to get a divorce because parents have to navigate being single and co-parenting with their ex-spouse.

Unfortunately, it’s more difficult for fathers after a strenuous divorce due to the negative stigma of being a single dad. Luckily, there are ways to parent effectively and still balance life as a single adult.

Four tips to parent as a divorced dad

  • Set aside negative emotions when it comes to co-parenting – Divorce naturally comes with many painful experiences that may ruin your perception of your ex. However, you have to set aside those emotions to be an effective co-parent to your child. It makes you a better father and keeps your child away from your relationship problems.
  • Embrace a flexible parenting style – It’s easy to get wrapped up in custody agreements or visitation schedules and feel like parenting is very organized. However, sporting events or activities will always pop up, and you need to embrace a flexible mindset. If your co-parent needs extra help on one of “their nights,” help them and know they can help you in the future.
  • Engage with your child’s interests – As a single parent, you will have more one-on-one time with your child. It’s an excellent opportunity to engage with their interests and forge a deeper bond with them. If they like sports, go out and play their favorite game with them. Or watch their favorite show. It allows insight into the person your child is becoming.
  • Be confident in your parenting choices – As a divorced parent, you have to make decisions by yourself. It may feel strange at first, but you need to trust your parental instincts and enjoy working with your child to create the best experience for them.

Divorce doesn’t mean you can’t be a great dad. For some dads, it allows them the opportunity to be better and find ways to connect with their child that they never tried before. Make sure to follow these tips and discover techniques that work for your parenting style.